Love's Triangle: "Don't Do Me That Way..."

Being pulled into a “love triangle” is never a likeable situation.  The probability of all three (or more) people involved becoming bitter is high.  And, in many instances, these three-way affairs often result in broken hearts and misdirected anger.  There can truly be no winner in this game of hearts because the core values of a stable relationship are often squandered while the emotional integrity needed to maintain longevity and trust is trampled.

To me, a relationship must start and end on the same note. If two people come together and discuss the fact that they have the same expectancies, they should both be clear as to what they can (and will) bring to the table. Learning to love someone is full of ups and downs, but these obstacles can be dealt with successfully if honesty is used as the platform for building a lifetime together.

Carrying on secret affairs while trying to learn someone new is never wise. Not only do you under-mind the trust of someone who is genuine in their intent, but you also destroy any chance of their ever feeling comfortable enough to trust you again. Chasing after a lost love or having a few "harmless flings" should only be done while you are still single and carefree - not while you are handling something as precious as another person's heart in the balance. If you are not ready to commit whole-heartedly, then you should just be honest and draw the line at friendship while you get your heart (and mind) in order.

 

Don't Do Me That Way...
by Sean C. Robinson, August 2012

I am exhausted, tired, and my soul is spent.

I have given myself in all honesty but, still; no recompense.

I find myself losing in a whimsical tug-of-war

Pulling at heart strings and emotions – but what is it all for?

My mental torment is eased only by our physical joy,
But - even then - my heart is treated like an inflatable toy.
When we first met, I was drawn to your hypnotic flame
But then, I found there were others who were doing the same.

You see, modern technology is your only downfall;
You don't return texts, you hardly ever call.
Yet, when I borrowed the phone you say you "don't use"
I read love-riddled messages from Ty, "K", DJ and Bruce.

No longer do I see you through rose colored lenses;
For this rose has thorns and private offenses.
Over seventy-two days of secret rendezvous
Shocked, my mind relives lies and sordid half-truths.

Still, you sit quietly; amused as you watch

Three or more contenders aim poorly for your heart.

Only one is the victor – although he has hurt you before,

And the ones who are worthy move with steps unsure.

You thrive on the attention showered by me and one other

Remaining focused on the failures of your previous lover.
So now, as I sit back and analyze your love-game,
I take note of your warped psyche and  ill-managed pains.

I realize I am a pawn; a negotiable expense,

In your game of emotions; a convenient inconvenience.  

When caught in your lies you say, “Aww... Don’t do me that way…”
As if you are the sole victim of your childish melee.

Oh, please go back to your past!  Free me from this nightmare!

Return to your private heartache and emotional despair!
And, trust, I will go my way and I'll attend to my new wounds.

And, one day, find true love...  What I thought I'd have with you...

 

 

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