Outside of immediate influences, our amazing contributions range from the potato chip to the
curling iron, from the stoplight to the heart transplant, and from the number
one talk show in syndication to the Presidency of the United States of
America. Why, then, are we still looked
upon as secondary? As non contributors?
Is this a position to be graciously accepted? Or, is it time that we
begin to re-write the history that has been taught in our schools?
In
the past four decades, I have
silently watched and unwittingly become part of the silent majority
known as the minority in America. This has caused great turmoil, inner
guilt,
and cause for reflection as I have also become more than my surroundings
had
ever predicted I would ever be. Mystified, I look at the many people
around me who call
themselves my brethren; my fellow warriors, Kings and Queens. Yet, these
same heroes within my
culture continually find themselves in homeless shelters and as
faceless names in the unemployment lines; all begging for place in a
world that was
built by their ancestor's sweat, their forefather's strength, and
knowledge that was once their own.
My middle aged revelations are not
shocking, to say the least. They are the same conversations that we all have heard in our local
barbershops and hair salons, around the water cooler, at the bus stops, and
yes, even in the local bar. But, these are the conversations that need to be
aired in a public forum, broadcast on our radio stations, and talked about on
our talk shows.

It
is my firm belief that we no longer
have to be subservient in a society that has given us a second (or
third) class citizen
status. Knowledge has always equated to power. It is time now to educate
the uneducated, to teach the unlearned, and to finally correct the
history
books. I implore you to tell the stories that has never been properly
documented in the one-sided history books that populate our schools.
Yes, I long for the days when my mother
would tell me stories of her childhood. Although they were simpler times, those
were the times when families stood as one.
Those were the days when elders were respected, children were seen but
not heard, and families had a central character known as the father. Somewhere between the civil rights movement
and the civil disobedience of gang violence, we have done nothing more than
lost our civil minds. Although we may
not see the chains that continue to keep us bound in the position of mental
enslavement, the teachings of Willie Lynch are still in effect today; keeping
many of our Kings and Queens from ever reaching their thrones.
By taking a moment to look at our
society, our culture, our people, ourselves, we are forced to see a distorted
reflection of truth. As I opt to break the looking glass, I refuse to join in
the laughter. I refuse to dance a jig. I refuse To be the well-spoken,
well-educated, well-dressed pink elephant in the room. I believe that the only
way that our culture can begin to be seen equally is to first reshape, then
redefine the definition of being black in America.

By demanding better programming on television and radio stations like BET, Bounce, and TV ONE, we can begin to recreate our own persona. By petitioning major players like Tyler Perry and Oprah Winfrey to produce films that applaud our heroes and show us in an accomplished light rather than always being poor, beaten, abused and abusive, we can begin to show America as well as our children that there is more to life than tom-foolery and continual mis-education. If they are unwilling to serve as responsible mentors, then ask that they partner with writers and other producers more willing to shed a different light on our unsung heroes. I applaud their accomplishments, but for every comical or abused character that they impress upon our minds, shouldn't there be just as many positive impressions left to balance our perceptions of self-worth? We are now the stewards of our worth; it is time to be more responsible.

If
you are not teaching your children about the past, then you are part of
the problem. At least, get out of the way and allow them to move
forward with pride. Stop perpetuating stagnant ideas, self-hatred, and
civil discord.
Who lied to my people? No one. Ill-written history books and traditional beliefs have simply imprisoned their minds... But, then again - this is just ONE Man's Opinion... What is yours?
Who lied to my people? No one. Ill-written history books and traditional beliefs have simply imprisoned their minds... But, then again - this is just ONE Man's Opinion... What is yours?
Sean, thank you for writing such a thought provoking article. It is great to know that I am not alone when it comes to raising the conscious of our people when it comes to understanding when we have come so far but have such a long,long,long ways to go. I find it ironic that the same people that enslaved us (African Americans) and subjected us to an unprecedented horror unmatched in world history. We must, in my opinion, become stewards of our past so that we can ensure a better future for the next generation. My greatest concern is that when I observe the behaviors that you describe, pants down, disrespecting young women (and everyone else)it only substantiates and perpetuates the very stereotypes so many of our people sacrificed their very lives to rid us of. Sean, keep up the good work. You are a wonderful brother, doing the right thing.
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